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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
« Reply #16 on: September 02, 2014, 09:36:31 PM »
From Bro Ok Mai: http://www.singthaidisco.com/forums/gong-tao-helpdesk-1-800-she-dun-like-me/thai-disco-confidential-a-short-reflection-on-lessons-learnt-and-temporary-for/msg277518/#msg277518

IMO we should be respectful n polite to anyone.... that's our part to play.... but of cos if one does not reciprocate in kind... then we can either choose to ignore or repay back in "kind" ...... having said.... it is a great pity if cheonging TD turns one into the constant-wary-of-cheating-girls kind cos that's will sound very sad indeed when good values are discarded/ unlearned just because of some unworthy working girls... yes we may have dug our own graves...but that's because we were lead to believe (once upon a time for me too) we were digging for gold....end up we start digging up dead bodies instead...8)

Anyway you are right about them coming here PURELY for money .....yes they definitely didn't fly all the way here just to find companions who make them drunk every night.... ok some who married TD's TGs here will disagree...for that...my negative self have this to say.....beware.... marriage doesn't guarantee happily ever after.... for all you know .... you might still be in the process of a long con.... a big one that is..... don't listen to me if this doesn't go down well with you....I wish you well with all my heart n blessing.....cos my intention is not for to curse but for to advocate self protection.... but only if you love yourself.... my 2 bahts worth of opinion.... ;)

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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
« Reply #17 on: September 18, 2014, 02:19:11 AM »
From Bro Octo: http://www.singthaidisco.com/forums/all-thai-discos/new-upcoming-club-sugar/msg277791/#msg277791

just wondering if hang $50 flower good enough for the whole night? i see mostly hang 20 to 50...
went there on sat, really nice place. 4 sets of girls to choose, the singers also quite chio.

some of the TG will chiong to the mens toilet cubicle coz they beh tahan wait for the ladies one. damn funny


Whats your definition of whole night, from 10pm to 3am? Rather tight budget IMO but still plausible~ since most of them wouldn't get nothing, or u might wish to split in smaller amount like a few $20 @ each set throughout the stay.

My POV is to start small, doesn't need to impress the crowd but just hang what u feel comfortable within your budget, personally I won't blow a big amount then GT will s_xpect the same amount on my following visits... Don't worry about she is not coming back since I hang so little, if she doesn't come back, great, I saves up following flowers & knew better she is looking for a bigger fish... There are many more other pooyings in the joint that wants to make an s_xtra living...

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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
« Reply #18 on: November 01, 2014, 03:40:00 AM »
From Bro Octo: http://www.singthaidisco.com/forums/gong-tao-helpdesk-1-800-she-dun-like-me/gt-by-a-awesome-tg/msg278398/#msg278398

Its your move that whatever makes u feel more comfortable.

The meaning of "trying hard" varies from individuals, but for me throwing money at them (eg: buy them s_xpensive gifts like LV or Iphone 6) is out of the league. Date her out like u have had date your past SG gfs, buy her food, threat her well with respect, take her walk around places of interest... Any bond needs time & effort to blossom, boils down to normal dating drills, include that IF u think u are really interested in her & wanna go further, never try never knows. Just watch over your hard-earned cash in times to come...

If along the way she ask u for s_xpensive gifts here & there, or say her house got issue aircon spoil fridge spoil car spoil ask for your money to repair, then better cut lost & dump that stock for good. Yes time & commitment has been spent but like stock market there are good times & bad times... The base-line is we must understand the first place why she is here in Sg --- To earn as much as possible in the shortest period of time, so chances are monetary will almost always involve, just that its much or lesser. Sometime dealing with relationship would be like flying a kite, sometimes have to pull & sometimes have to let go a bit, have to also depend on landscape, wind directions & weather, and some jerk will cut your kite with their glass-line along the way.

If unfortunately things don't work out as u have had plan, cut lost & get over it... Money can eventually earned back but the emotional damage could be a stink in the ass. Things happen, so try your best to fly your kite, but get over it when your kite is stuck on the tree or lost in the sky.
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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
« Reply #19 on: December 31, 2014, 03:51:58 AM »
From Bro @Octopuss: http://www.singthaidisco.com/forums/all-thai-discos/icon-2-parklane-lvl-4/msg280093/#msg280093

Bro DeeMak I don't know u can buy out from Icon or not... but from my past s_xperience with other joints chances are high, its much depend on the girl preference rather than the joint management. That means just between 2 of u for a deal. Ranges from S$300-S$1000 per buy-out, depends if she is coyote, model or singer, and also buying out for a set or whole night... U can buy them out from as early as club opens. All buy-out cash will submit to agent/management

For example you can buy out a lady from 9pm to 11pm... she report late for work & company will charge you a buy-out fee of S$300. Or you can buy-out her whole night and pay at higher bar-fine. In another way of doing it, is to help her hit her quota target of the day, for example she has balance 20 LDs to complete her quota, negotiate with her & try to make up that 20 LDs, let her call it a day & company with you for the rest of the night.

Nevertheless, importantly to clarify that buy-out doesn't mean s_x, some are just going for late dinner/supper, or go to beach for chit chat, some take girls to Casino and have some monetary fun, even in some cases when the girl is not feeling well, so ask their 'teerak' to buy them out so that she can head home for good night sleep... (then somehow someone spotted her with another guy outside)

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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
« Reply #20 on: January 14, 2015, 04:31:29 AM »
From Bro @Chao Choo
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Greetings to you,

I beg to differ on your opinions regarding the thai girls-normal girl and WL aka working lady.


First of all, I've quite alot of friends back in Thailand. Consist of male and female, all holding decent jobs.

Talking about lying. Initally I've same thought as yours, those who come here to work, maybe they've lower education and the list goes on, thus lying is norm to them. It's like daily thingy.

But I'm wrong, after a few years of mixing, observing those normal thai people.

Those normal girls, and girls working in SG sharing the same traits.


If you say, girls working in Sg like to have multiple partners ess if the other party is rich, those girls at Thailand ain't any angel either.  ;D

If you saying, those girls come to SG are lazy, that they don't want to find job in Thailand, well in Thailand, if you're pretty. Having someone to pay for your expenses is not an issue.

I'm too have such friends. In thai they called it "Peuan Tiao".

Thai people generally are open minded people, they don't care if you sell yourself to support the family. Of course there's people who look down upon these group of people, but you can't compare with SG mentality.


Lastly, I'm absolutely agree with you, if you like to have a thai girl as your gf, pls go to Thailand and find. And of course, even they holding decent job, don't expect them to be an angel. You need to keep on finding till you find the right one.

Like Johnie Walker quote "Keep on Walking"
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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
« Reply #21 on: January 17, 2015, 04:21:25 AM »
From Bro @Lim86

http://www.singthaidisco.com/forums/gong-tao-helpdesk-1-800-she-dun-like-me/what-do-you-think-is-he-lucky-or-innocently-blessed/msg280647/#msg280647


I am a Singaporean and has been living in bangkok for two years. What I feel about sg men is like they tends to believe that thai girls love sg men. They have the habit like come thailand must have mistress like that. Then like whenever they come bangkok can call her, meet her then have s_x. I just find this is very funny mindset because thai girls are not crazy over sg men. We are not the most handsome men in Asia, we still have koreans and Japanese competing with us. It is because our currency is bigger and they are attracted to the money, some will say no she is my friend. I know her very long and etc, please take a look at yourself before you try to say she is into you. Plenty of handsome thai guys out there what makes you think you more handsome than them. Face the reality is all I can say.



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First I would like to say truly understand thai culture before you want to get a thai girl. I have been living in thailand for almost 2 years already. True everyone want money, everyone also not enough money. But the fact is there are plenty of girls that doesn't work night life. Yes of course working night life doesn't mean she is a bad girl, I totally agreed with that. But it is a form of short cut to get fast cash and honestly when she joined this environment and the people she met you can forget about it already. And any person who wants to go shortcut tends to sway easily if one day you couldn't catch up with her expenses. Girls that are married before, have kids before or work night life before are considered bo value to thai men especially rich thai men. Even the thai man loves her and want to marry her he will not pay sin sod to her family because the value of her is no longer there. And of course rich thai men will not bother about them because rich thai men has plenty of choices and usually they will choose one to match their background if they are talking about serious commitment. Dun talk about singaporeans, look at the farangs (ang mo) in thailand. How many of them got scam, they believed they found true love. The only way the whole thing work out is you must be living in thailand. These 2 years I seen alot, long distance relationship will never ever work out, dun be naive. Many singaporeans like thai girls because more obedient, more chio, more submissive and yes I agree. But face the reality, unless you can bring her to sg and let her be housewife if not forget it or you come to thailand like me. But again alot people think thailand is cheap sorry, I seen many people come and return when their savings is used up. You come here work, first ask yourself you have degree ma. There are many farang here too, even a basic job like teacher need degree and teaching cert. Do business you need money too, overall it is not so easy. And currently thai government is cracking down on illegal foreigners so getting visa is expensive now. Living here and coming here as holiday is totally different, trust me on this. I have a friend who has $20k sgd savings and say want to migrate thailand I say good luck. 1 year later he go back and end up with nothing. Foreigners will stay here are usually expats or own business here honestly.
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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
« Reply #22 on: April 06, 2015, 05:50:03 AM »
From Bro @Octopuss

http://www.singthaidisco.com/forums/gong-tao-helpdesk-1-800-she-dun-like-me/just-another-td-girl/msg282465/#msg282465

Bro Thonglover it has been a year, IMO hit the iron while its still hot, relationship is in its worse state while one just leave it as it is, Bochap-logy don't mix well with relationship. If you are interested in her, do find time to company her, from your post I think she is a good woman, at least not those greedy type... and ask oneself what you wanna get out from this relationship: a marriage, a date, or like some bros here going for the glory hole LoL  :-*

Agree with Bro 2015, and many other does: get a flight to her place in Thailand, but please don't go there just to hold hands, before doing so, do some LINE homework and keep constant contact with her, for she also can't read your mind, tell her what u feel and add sweet words here & there, Tom & Jerry routine thingy and keep the sparks go on... by chance just tell her that wanna visit her in Thailand, going by yourself, hint to her that you do not want to stay alone (wink wink  ;D), damn might get lucky, and chances are on your side if she is interested in you and not just a friend...

IMO for me its the easiest way to tell if she is keen in you or not... and as a guy stand-point, we should be the one do the action, can't really every time waiting for things to happen, end of the day even if things won't turn out well, we lose our time, money & pride... But if never try, really won't know s_xcept keep on guessing the outcome. Attacku  :D

NB: just a note that by chance that oneself must sort out first, if she is the one whom suits you.. if sleep together already (aka eat already) and then slowly find out the girls' charm has lessen, or she is not your type of soup (many guys do, don't argue with me, I know  ;D), beware what the (empty) promises has made, sometimes our own words might just bite back...  :-X

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Re: WORDS OF ADVICE.
« Reply #23 on: April 06, 2015, 05:53:49 AM »
From bro @astreal

http://www.singthaidisco.com/forums/gong-tao-helpdesk-1-800-she-dun-like-me/how-do-you-trust-your-thai-disco-girlfriend/msg282488/#msg282488



Can you elaborate on the part about liking their man being pragmatic and in control? That's a very interesting point.



Most of them will always tell you they dislike Thai men or prefer foreigners, that's the hustler inside of them talking. Most of them will still end up with Thai men simply cause the way to women's heart is through words. Communication plays a big part when it comes to making any women falling in love with you.

Thai people are indoctrinate in thousand of years of social hierarchy, you are supposed to know where your place in society is . Those who have been with Thai women, do you notice when you go eat suki or dinner, they will be the one doing the cooking or taking food to put on your plate automatically? They will be the ones who do most of the house keeping as they feel it's their duties, their place. You don't have to tell them what to do. All these are done sub conscientiously.

Same applies to the dynamics of relationship with them. Being emo and possessive is a women's thing. Men are supposed to be direct with their intentions and in control of their emotions. Take control of the relationship. Tell them what is it you want from them and if not they can fcuk off. Show Strength. Most Thai women will tell you that's not what they want but surprisingly how many of them are in the relationship where they are the submissive one.  ;D

This is based on my own personal observations in Thailand among my Thai friends male and female. WL and Non WL.   
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