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[xenodemon]

long time never post in Gong-Ta0 Helpdesk... today i would like to share some of my experiences.

When first started TD-ing > Now...

Heart-pain to hang $10 flower > Now, I don’t feel anything for hanging $100
Think Thai girls are super chio > Now, i find that Thai girls in SG are mostly "2nd-grade". Especially after a few trips to Krung Thep, come back to SG and look at them... oh my god, most CMI! Maybe they cannot make a living in Thailand that's why they come here (sorry if i offended any bro here, just IMO)
"Desperately" want to bring them out > Now, i dont even bother, sometime i will reject them. most of the time, they only want to go GM, Bugis or Mustapa... super boring!
Want to touch, hug, kiss them > Now, i dont let them to touch me. because other girls will know. if this happens, hard for me to butterfly in the same joint leaw. girls will remember me as customers of XXX and will not come to talk to me. i rather go KTV, can get more actions
Want to F them > Now, I just pay and go. Pure s_x, no string attached, no need maintanance. 100% service-oriented
When i discover their lies, the feeling is like end-of-the-world > Now, whatever they says, i dont care. i dont even want to waste my energy to think, analyze or do some "acid test" to see if they are really telling lie or not. i just act stupid... left ear in, right ear out.
when lights are on... i worry they go where, do what, go with who... want to send them home etc etc > Now i only worry about police road block

i still go TD for the "whole entertainment package" - live band, nice songs and dance, cheap beer... and girlfriend effect (GFE)! i said it 1 more time - girlfriend effect, not girlfriend! 555...

for a single guy like me, i prefer no girlfriend so that i can butterfly without worrying about anything. when a girl start to ask for more, i just move on and look for another one. the first few weeks of GFE is always SWEET

some say i butterfly mak mak... but... who doesnt???

in summary, i think many bros here really need to go thru all the pains themselve before they realize all these are just "entertainment". really pointless to advise, many bros here will not listen anyway... and trying to believe that the one they meet is the special one.

if you think so, by all means, go ahead. but be prepared for one-sided sad ending. obviously you'll on the losing end. dont fool yourself.

sorry if i offend anyone here, just my 2 baths.

+gtk to u

[levirpoolian]

Lol good for u levi bro. At least she willing to spend more time wif u when ur ard rather den go sell LDs

don't be happy for me bro. I am not one of the rare lucky fellows with a nice thai GF. i neglect to mention in my earlier post that i always buy my GT flowers. each night $150-$300, depending on my mood and also if she gets a lot of flowers that night (the more she get from others the less I give). and i go almost 4-6 times each week so i am considered a rather "big" customer.

and u may be mistaken that she spends all her time with me when i am there. in the beginning she will. but after we become closer and she knows i am very easy-going, she hardly spends time at my table, instead she focused her efforts on going table by table to "electric" the customers. she is very driven by earning money, and will entertain and drink herself to the ground just to get more flowers, even if she already earn a lot of flowers from me without doing anything, she wouldn't rest. the most each night she will only spend 15-30mins with me.. and i am usually there for 4-5 hours till closing! but i say she treats me special because she will hold my hand, hug me and kiss me (i observe over many months already, she doesn't touch customers much unless they hug her or kiss her themselves then she boh-bian but even then she won't respond back and just let her arms hang at her side.

maybe i really too easy-going. it has been a long journey and i finally know that i spend so much money but all i am getting is GFE (as described by Bro Toyman) and not a GF, and yet i still carry on... reason being she is so hot and s_xy (to me anyway) i can't help but keep supporting my fantasy even though i know eventually when her work permit expires, she will just pack up and leave without thinking of me for a second.

so don't be serious with any working girls from TDs otherwise you will just be the one that get hurt.. unless you never spend any money on them at all and they still stick to you, then u may have found yourself a good GF.

[zoick]

don't be happy for me bro. I am not one of the rare lucky fellows with a nice thai GF. i neglect to mention in my earlier post that i always buy my GT flowers. each night $150-$300

That a lot 

and u may be mistaken that she spends all her time with me when i am there. in the beginning she will. but after we become closer and she knows i am very easy-going, she hardly spends time at my table,

Mine will stay most of the time with me. Of course she still have to buterfly around .. That why at the end, i stop going there to see her, so she can work and if want to meet, in the evening time for dinner. Even just like may be 2-3 hrs each time we meet, and may be once a week only, but that 2-3 hrs quality time beat any time to meet in TD. May be you want to try to meet her outside? Less damage with better quality time. Just 2 cents

[levirpoolian]

got meet her outside and for dinner too. not that often usually once a week, sometimes twice a week and when she very good mood then more often than that. she always wants to sleep lah. but even though i got spend time with her outside of work,, i know it does not mean anything too. if i keep asking her, afterall i support her so much, i ask 3 times she must agree to go out at least one time with me right! if not i will also be sien and it will be bye bye flowers for her...

the more i get to know her/them.. the more i understand that they ALWAYS LIE. they will lie to cover up their own countryman/women, to protect each other's customers. so like some of the brothers said.. now i just listen and don't believe anything them anymore. better 'cos i don't get affected when i find out they lie to me.

The following lie is classic. one day i waiting for her go back and she say she go toilet and after that disappeared. i call also nvr pick up. after that i msg her ask where is she. her reply "go back with [singer/dancer xxx] want to spend time with her". wtf.. they stay together, see each other 24 x 7.. from wake up to work to sleep, still need to spend more time together??

[s0me1]

PS: This post is directed to myself... machiam a blog post. 555+

"Guilty" unless proven otherwise..
Don't have to pity them.. Protect your own interest.


some bro always say.. "Ask yourself, will u do the same for a sgp gal?"


1LD=$12, how many mins or hours she will acc u?

1movie ticket=$10(long time didn't go cinema liao, dunno the exact price),  how many mins or hours u can enjoy the movie?

money is yours, how u wanna spend it.. or how u wanna enjoy spending it.. It's A Choice.