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[levirpoolian]

yesterday she voluntarily told me that she had a thai bf back when she was in thailand working.. but they broke up already.. he still calls her sometimes but he already has new gf. the question i always wanted to ask but dunno how to ask and she volunteered the info herself!

but of course, how much of that can i believe??? and why did she tell me that? to let me know she is single? its driving me nuts trying to decipher if she even likes me.. so far the following things have happened:
- Go out few times but always in a group.
- Seldom call/sms me but i heard from others that she is like that always don't reply sms.
- Hold my hand everytime we go out, but is it because I initiate first so she cannot refuse? and she will wrap her fingers around mine..
- No darling/teerak but never asked me for anything either. But i always buy flowers for her when i go to her work place.
- She told me she don't go out with customers. And as far as i can observe, yah i don't think she does although she is very popular and gets asked all the time.

right now my thoughts are that she wants to be courted like a normal girl. but i really dunno. she could be a gongtau master for all i know.. driving me nuts...

[velvetman]

yesterday she voluntarily told me that she had a thai bf back when she was in thailand working.. but they broke up already.. he still calls her sometimes but he already has new gf. the question i always wanted to ask but dunno how to ask and she volunteered the info herself!

but of course, how much of that can i believe??? and why did she tell me that? to let me know she is single? its driving me nuts trying to decipher if she even likes me.. so far the following things have happened:
- Go out few times but always in a group.
- Seldom call/sms me but i heard from others that she is like that always don't reply sms.
- Hold my hand everytime we go out, but is it because I initiate first so she cannot refuse? and she will wrap her fingers around mine..
- No darling/teerak but never asked me for anything either. But i always buy flowers for her when i go to her work place.
- She told me she don't go out with customers. And as far as i can observe, yah i don't think she does although she is very popular and gets asked all the time.

right now my thoughts are that she wants to be courted like a normal girl. but i really dunno. she could be a gongtau master for all i know.. driving me nuts...

here's some of my thoughts on it bro based on having had several long term thai girlfriends working in discos and also those from non-club scene work; thai girls will vounteer info only when they feel ready to, as in the more they know and trust you the more they will share. She could have told you that to let you know not to stop trying to court her because the going out in a group is very thai, they are quite afraid to go out alone with someone they don't know completely. Seldom smsing isnt an issue, maybe she jsut wants you to sms her, but not replying sms is strange as she knows that guys hate it when women dont reply. Holding hands isnt that uncommon for them if outside thailand as they know its normal here and could mean she wants to let others know you're more then a friend. Not sure abt the no darling/tee rak, then again if you haven't been intimate yet its a good sign she's wouldnt just use those words lightly. I take it she must be a singer or something right? AS if shes a coyote then most likely better for her to get her drinks as she only get 33% from flowers but 50% from drinks. Not going out with customers is also quite common, the more materialistic ones like to do that in the hopes of getting more freebies. To sum up you should just continue to play it out. Don't stop supporting her when she's working as that would only show her you don't care abt her (nothing to do with being a customer or bf).

[levirpoolian]

thanks for the encouragement velvetman. i really like her a lot so i think i will keep on trying although it is really such an emotional roller coaster not to mention chionging TD every other day is very tiring and not cheap. i do support her with flowers when she is working for exactly for the reasons you said, because i care and want her to look good to her boss.

she definitely came to singapore with the intention of just working.. which maybe explains why she tend keeps herself at a distance, and don't bother to reply sms or call customers? she practices very hard and always get to work on time and depends on her performance to get flowers. of course she also "takes care" of customers too but only drink and chat with them. for the last 4 weeks either me or my friends have been at her workplace almost every night and none of us have never seen her physically intimate with other guys. i think that is enough observation time.

recently she will hold my hands sometimes as we leaving her workplace and i sending her home. not everytime, i think when have many customers still around she won't do it and she will just walk ahead of me or behind me. but about 2 outa 5 times she will hold my hands and walk out with me. there was this customer she knew i didn't like because he asked her to go hotel before.. so once i think she purposely held my hand and walk right pass this person and even smile and wave at him with her free hand as she walked past. and this is not say small customer, each time he comes he hangs her at least $100. the only reason why she would have done that was so to let me know i didn't have to worry? obviously he never ever hang her flowers again!

so many many mixed signals.. sometimes they are really hard to decipher. will keep trying but may need to ask her some questions to know what she is thinking of soon. really don't want to put too much emotionally into it to find out later she just sees me as a good friend.

[velvetman]

thanks for the encouragement velvetman. i really like her a lot so i think i will keep on trying although it is really such an emotional roller coaster not to mention chionging TD every other day is very tiring and not cheap. i do support her with flowers when she is working for exactly for the reasons you said, because i care and want her to look good to her boss.

she definitely came to singapore with the intention of just working.. which maybe explains why she tend keeps herself at a distance, and don't bother to reply sms or call customers? she practices very hard and always get to work on time and depends on her performance to get flowers. of course she also "takes care" of customers too but only drink and chat with them. for the last 4 weeks either me or my friends have been at her workplace almost every night and none of us have never seen her physically intimate with other guys. i think that is enough observation time.

recently she will hold my hands sometimes as we leaving her workplace and i sending her home. not everytime, i think when have many customers still around she won't do it and she will just walk ahead of me or behind me. but about 2 outa 5 times she will hold my hands and walk out with me. there was this customer she knew i didn't like because he asked her to go hotel before.. so once i think she purposely held my hand and walk right pass this person and even smile and wave at him with her free hand as she walked past. and this is not say small customer, each time he comes he hangs her at least $100. the only reason why she would have done that was so to let me know i didn't have to worry? obviously he never ever hang her flowers again!

so many many mixed signals.. sometimes they are really hard to decipher. will keep trying but may need to ask her some questions to know what she is thinking of soon. really don't want to put too much emotionally into it to find out later she just sees me as a good friend.

know what u mean, im on a 6night record myself, although i did do a 6nighter last time my gf was here too. ITs tough to really know how much is truth and white lies, the real lies are quiter easy to detect if you do hear any.  But even if they do give some white lies its more to protect themselves and not harm you - unless of course she turns out to be a real 2-3-4timing gt which i have heard of happening to many frenz. Learning some thai worlds to express exactly what you wanna talk about would help alot other then the general small talk thai. Also if she's from isaan speaking the inimate/caring phrases in isaan would have more effect too 555+.

[xenodemon]

wow..six night in a row. u night made me feel so guilty.

mine jus arrive back in spore. 1st sms  ask me go TD find her. I told her straight now u come back spore just ask me go workplace find u? if u want to meet me, meet me outside and not in TD..

IN foul mood today at work (YES! i work on national day)....

[ไชโย.MT]

Bro levi, i understand what u r going thru... I am going thru the same thing... I happen to saw her holding hand and kiss customer on the cheek... But At that pt of time she was high and slightly drunk... I did not confront her but i have to understand its part and parcel if their job.... Jus that she go working i become a little bored jus happen to saw it... I told her what i saw and with who.... She can tell me sorry and what she do was stupid but i was not angry tobe with them u have to understand their work. I know trust from them beginning is quite hard too, thai ppl already gave us a bad first impression only time will tell.... I try to be jai yen yen... Look over as her as a special frd to me. I also cannot go down eveyday my kidney still die early hahaha but i offer to send her to work everyday if can although time is short but she is happy with it also.... Jus stay patient learn her slowly. Sorry me no expert also jus to help u mai kit mak. Jing jing dun think of long term jus enjoy the moment now... Jus my pov enjoy urself wth ur frd better then jus going there to see her work: )

Actually other than her famil and frd who missed or think of her no one else will think of her but you.and u really care from the heart... So to them u had a place in thier heart already is how it contiune and what truth u will know later...

[TD_KING]

thanks for the encouragement velvetman. i really like her a lot so i think i will keep on trying although it is really such an emotional roller coaster not to mention chionging TD every other day is very tiring and not cheap. i do support her with flowers when she is working for exactly for the reasons you said, because i care and want her to look good to her boss.

she definitely came to singapore with the intention of just working.. which maybe explains why she tend keeps herself at a distance, and don't bother to reply sms or call customers? she practices very hard and always get to work on time and depends on her performance to get flowers. of course she also "takes care" of customers too but only drink and chat with them. for the last 4 weeks either me or my friends have been at her workplace almost every night and none of us have never seen her physically intimate with other guys. i think that is enough observation time.

recently she will hold my hands sometimes as we leaving her workplace and i sending her home. not everytime, i think when have many customers still around she won't do it and she will just walk ahead of me or behind me. but about 2 outa 5 times she will hold my hands and walk out with me. there was this customer she knew i didn't like because he asked her to go hotel before.. so once i think she purposely held my hand and walk right pass this person and even smile and wave at him with her free hand as she walked past. and this is not say small customer, each time he comes he hangs her at least $100. the only reason why she would have done that was so to let me know i didn't have to worry? obviously he never ever hang her flowers again!

so many many mixed signals.. sometimes they are really hard to decipher. will keep trying but may need to ask her some questions to know what she is thinking of soon. really don't want to put too much emotionally into it to find out later she just sees me as a good friend.

Bro you good la..just carry on do what you are doing..seems that girl is sensible enough that $$$ is not everything ... what you have observed so far says quite alot about her....openly showing her affection for you in front of her customers definitely means something...it could have been reversed..you the one being waved at...signals are positive...keep it up and take care...

[◩ngoh◪]

wow..six night in a row. u night made me feel so guilty.

mine jus arrive back in spore. 1st sms  ask me go TD find her. I told her straight now u come back spore just ask me go workplace find u? if u want to meet me, meet me outside and not in TD..

IN foul mood today at work (YES! i work on national day)....

oh so she is finally here after that long journey.

[ไชโย.MT]

wow..six night in a row. u night made me feel so guilty.

mine jus arrive back in spore. 1st sms  ask me go TD find her. I told her straight now u come back spore just ask me go workplace find u? if u want to meet me, meet me outside and not in TD..

IN foul mood today at work (YES! i work on national day)....

oh so she is finally here after that long journey.

u mean she take bus frm thailand all the way to singapore thru wdl custom? power lar i think her butt will be damn sore hehe

[deuter]

i have actually heard of some gals who actually does it.... takin bus all d way frm thailand to msia n SG....